Jay and his wife, Debbie in NYC
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James and his mother on his Wedding day
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James and his mother on his Wedding day
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Jay and his friends at a bridal dinner and rehearsal
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Jay's engagement photo with his wife, Debbie
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Jay and his mother at Eisenhower Park
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Jay and his wife, Debbie
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Jay and his niece, Julia
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James on his 5th birthday
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James on his 6th birthday
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James and family at Villa Roma
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James in firefighter gear at age 3
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James's 4th Birthday
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James at a Met game
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James and his son, Matthew
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James's son Matthew
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James's son Matthew
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James's wife Debbie and their son Matthew on vacation
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James and his wife on their Honeymoon in the Bahamas
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James and his wife on their Honeymoon in the Bahamas at Sandals resort
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Jay and his wife, Debbie at a rehearsal dinner
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James and his wife at Southhold
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James and friends at a bridal rehearsal dinner
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James and his wife, Debbie
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James and his wife on vacation in the Bahamas
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James with friends and family
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James and his niece
Jay on vacation at a beach in Montauk, NY
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Jay during his honeymoon at Sandals in the Bahamas
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Portrait of Jay
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Jay on vacation
Jay celebrating his 16th birthday
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Jay's Portrait at 16 years old
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Portrait of Jay in 2nd grade
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Jay's Communion in 2nd grade
Jay and his wife, Debbie on their wedding day
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Jay and his wife, Debbie on their wedding day
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Jay's wife Debbie with James's nieces and goddaughters, on their wedding day
A card in memory of Jay
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The last movie Jay and Debbie saw, Planet of the Apes
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Card in memory of Jay
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A drawing done by Matthew, James's son
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Card encouraging help for Debbie and their child
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Wedding card for Debbie and Jay
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Collage of items related to James
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Wristband in memory of James
Invite to memorial at Mulachy's Sports Bar for James
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Collage of photos in memory of James
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Fundraiser and raffle in memory of James
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Eulogy by James's best friend, Tim
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Eulogy by James's best friend, Tim (part 2)
Article written in memory to James
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![James J. Carson Jr. "Jay" James J. Carson Jr. "Jay"](/sites/default/files/2020-03/carson_james.jpg)
Queen Elizabeth II September 11 Memorial Garden
Conseleya 9/11 Memorial
Dewitt 9/11 Memorial
Montclair State University 9/11 Memorial
East Newark 9/11 Memorial
Fair Haven 9/11 Memorial
Freehold Township 9/11 Living Memorial Tree Grove
Crescent Beach Park - Flagpole/Memorial for 9/11 Victims
Garrison Elementary School American Patriot Garden
9/11 Babies on Dads: 'I Never Met Him but I Know I Love Him'
James Carson spent much of the day -- and often much of the evening -- working with computers on the 103rd floor of the World Trade Center. When he finally did get home, he immediately headed for a different kind of computer: his Sony Playstation.
"That was how he would wind down," said his wife, Debbie Carson. She recalled that Mr. Carson, 32, would come home to Massapequa, N.Y., and relax by playing football video games in the basement. He took the games so seriously that he kept statistics on the virtual players, she said -- just like the stats he kept on favorite real-life players.
"I'm not even allowed in the basement," said Mrs. Carson, who is six months pregnant with their first child. "That was his playroom."
His office was something of a playroom, too. Mr. Carson, who had worked as a computer network administrator at Cantor Fitzgerald for just over six weeks on Sept. 11, was thrilled to be so close to the heart of the world of finance. "He always ranted and raved about his view and the work he was doing," Mrs. Carson said.
I ran the Lackland AFB
I ran the Lackland AFB Memorial run with James name on my race bib. We will never forget. God Speed.
Posted by Cory Berdinner
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