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Place of Residence:
Staten Island, NY
Location on 9/11:
Fire Department of New York | Firefighter, Ladder 20
Hobbies and Special Interests:
all sports
family time with children

James M. Gray‚ 34‚ firefighter‚ FDNY‚ Ladder 20. Gray left a job as a bus driver to become a firefighter in 1996‚ following his father to the FDNY where he retired as a lieutenant. Passionate and committed to his job‚ he was studying for his lieutenant’s test while working with his brothers at ‘SOHO Trucking’ as they referred to their Lafayette Street firehouse. A member of the Emerald Society and the Knights of Columbus‚ Gray was a devoted husband to his wife and a loving father to his two girls.