Bottom right: figurine representing Pam playing softball; bottom left: wishnick doll from New Year's 1994; patch from Catholic Youth Organization Burlington - softball team sponsors; Next row - left to right: dachsund figurine for dog names Taffy; Girl Scout patch; Rancocas Valley high school ring, 1968; wedding cake topper, January 8, 1972; 1972 coin from Kevin's father for wedding "so they would never go broke;" Initial pin "PLG;" wedding momento; top box: wedding garter; tassle from high school graduation.
Christmas boxes because Pam loved Christmas; Pam and her sister loved board games and drinking champaigne; they also liked candy; the dog, Taffy.
Pam used to say this to Kevin all the time.
Wedding invitation decoupage made by Kevin's mother.
Burlington County College Alumni Hall of Fame induction plaque.
Outstanding leadership award from Accounting Association of Burlington County College to Pam, their first president.
Pam's Memorial Service Pin, November 17, 2001
Pam's Memorial Service
Caricature from work conference, 1997.
Pam loved this picture because it summed up her personality - Snap out of it!
Decoupage of wedding invitation made by Kevin's mother.
Caricature of Pam from elementary school.
Pam's certificate of baptism from the Catholic church
Pam's record of confirmation in the Catholic church
Rancocas Valley Regional High School certificate of award to Pam for meritorious service
Pam's ID card for Aon. Card was made before company became Aon (was RHH/Godwins).
Personal Keepsake, Pam used to say this to Kevin all the time.
Urn with ashes from ground zero
Memorial keepsake given to Kevin by a friend
Memorial keepsake given to Kevin by a friend
Piece of steel from WTC
Piece of steel from WTC
Management honor society certificate
Burlington Counting College certificate of achievement
Top three pins are 9/11 related. Bottom two pins belonged to Pam from when she worked at Christian LaCroix.
Graduation tassle from master's graduation at Rider University
Artifacts part of the 10th anniversary memorial flag that friend, Helen Lonstreth purchased.
Pen's from Pam's company, Aon.
Pam loved Christmas - these are her Christmas jewelry pieces.
Birthday card given to Pam by her coworkers on her last birthday, September 10, 2001.
Birthday card from coworkers
Birthday card given to Pam by her coworkers on her last birthday, September 10, 2001.
Letter and lapel pin from Aon in memory of the Aon employees lost on 9/11.
Letter from Freedom Quilts
Alumni Association letter from Rider College
Letter enclosed with memorial plaque from Aon
Letter included with sympathy card from Kevin's cousin, Sharon Gifford
Pam's birth announcement. September 10, 1950.
Pam's birth announcement. September 10, 1950.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Antionette. October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Antionette. October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Antionette. October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Antionette. October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Fanale, 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Antionette. October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Staufenberg, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Fanale, 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Fanale, 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Staufenberg, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Debbie Fanale, 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Nancy Dudding, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Nancy Dudding, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Nancy Dudding, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Nancy Dudding, October 2001.
Sympathy card to Kevin from Nancy Dudding, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Aiden Nagler, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Aiden Nagler, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Aiden Nagler, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Aiden Nagler, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Cathy Pesaventi, September 2001.
Sympathy card from Cathy Pesaventi, September 2001.
Sympathy card from Cathy Pesaventi, September 2001.
Sympathy card from Cathy Pesaventi, September 2001.
Sympathy card from Tribeca Bodyworks, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Tribeca Bodyworks, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Tribeca Bodyworks, November 2001
Sympathy card from Tribeca Bodyworks, November 2001
Sympathy card from Tribeca Bodyworks, November 2001
Sympathy card from Judy Scalsky Kriegner, February 2002.
Sympathy card from Judy Scalsky Kriegner, February 2002.
Sympathy card from Judy Scalsky Kriegner, February 2002.
Sympathy card from Judy Scalsky Kriegner, February 2002.
Sympathy card from Judy Scalsky Kriegner, February 2002.
Card given to Kevin by Pam. Pam always used to tell Kevin she "loved him heart, body & soul."
Card given to Kevin by Pam. Pam always used to tell Kevin she "loved him heart, body & soul."
Card given to Kevin by Pam. Pam always used to tell Kevin she "loved him heart, body & soul."
Card given to Kevin by Pam. Pam always used to tell Kevin she "loved him heart, body & soul."
Holiday card to Kevin from Pam's parents, 2001.
Holiday card to Kevin from Pam's parents, 2001.
Holiday card to Kevin from Pam's parents, 2001.
Sympathy card from Robert, Sherri, Aaron and Hunter, 2001.
Sympathy card from Robert, Sherri, Aaron and Hunter, 2001.
Sympathy card from Robert, Sherri, Aaron and Hunter, 2001.
Sympathy card from Robert, Sherri, Aaron and Hunter, 2001.
Sympathy card from Kevin's cousin, Sharon Gifford, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Kevin's cousin, Sharon Gifford, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Kevin's cousin, Sharon Gifford, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan H. from Aon Chicago office, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan H. from Aon Chicago office, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan H. from Aon Chicago office, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan H. from Aon Chicago office, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan H. from Aon Chicago office, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Craig Guild, November 2001.
Sympathy card from Craig Guild, November 2001.
Top row - left to right: Pamela Lee Gaff graduating Burlington County college; Pam, graduation photo Rider University, Master of Business Administration; Pam, graduation photo Rider University, Bachelor of Science in Commerce. Middle row - left to right: Pam and Kevin on vacation in Cancun, Mexico; Kevin and Pam, 1980s; Kevin and Pam, New Year's Eve, 1990s, Scottsdale, AZ; Bottom row - left to right: Kevin and Pam, New Year's Eve, 1990s, Scottsdale, AZ; Pam and Kevin at Pam's brother's (Joe) wedding; Pam and Kevin on vacation in Sanibel Island, FL.
Top row - left to right: Pam, First Holy Communion; pam on right at school play; Damush family portrait at Pam's brother's wedding (Joe Damush, Brian Damush, Jon Damush, Cheri (Damush) David, rich Damush; Pamela Lee Gaff, Joe Damush, Dorothy Damush); Pamela Lee Gaff; Pamela Lee Gaff, Rider University. 2nd row - left to right: Pam at her sister's house in Laguna Beach, CA; Pam and Kevin, New Year's Eve, Scottsdale, AZ; Pam 1968 Rancocas Valley High School; Pam at Christmas; Pam and Kevin. Next row - left to right: Pam, baby picture, 1950; Pam 1980s; Pam 2000 brother's wedding; Pam 2000 brother's wedding. Bottom row - left to right: Pam, Rider University graduation; Pam, grammar school; Pam 1990s; Pam, late 1990s; Pam and Kevin, first date, 1971; Pam, just started walking.
Pam and Kevin
Pam's nephew, Brandon David, and niece, Amanda David.
Pam with nephew, Brandon David, at Laguna Beach, CA.
Pam with niece, Amanda David, at Laguna Beach, CA.
Pam with nephew, Brandon David, husband, Kevin Gaff, and niece, Amanda Gaff at Laguna Beach, CA.
Glenn Longstreth, Lamanda Longstreth, Kevin Gaff, Pam Gaff, Paul Riley, Joyce Riley, Mara Bakes, Alan Bakes, Eron Bakes.
Friends & Family
Larry Longstreth, Mary Gaff, Pam's mother-in-law, Pam Gaff.
Princeton University Chapel. Don Bakes, Soloist and cousin, singing "The Lord's Prayer" and Andrea Bakes on piano. Robert J. Harvey, organist and friend.
Pam with nephew and godchild, Alan Bakes, and husband, Kevin Gaff.
Memorial service reception at Princeton University, Prospect House. Kevin's Uncle Jack Gaff, Kevin's father, Donald Gaff, Kevin's Uncle Hal Bakes. Hal wrote the poem "Pam's Journey."
Reception at Princeton University, Prospect House. Niece, Erin Bakes and nephew, Alan Bakes.
Pam and her husband, Kevin.
Pam and her husband, Kevin, in Las Vegas, NV.
Pam and her husband, Kevin, at the Grand Canyon.
Pam and her husband, Kevin, on Sanibel Island, FL.
Pam with nephew, Brandon David and niece, Amanda David.
Pam and Kevin, New Year's Eve in Scottsdale, AZ.
Pam and Kevin dancing on New Year's Eve in Scottsdale, AZ
Pam with sister, Cheri David, and husband, Kevin on New Year's Eve in Scottsdale, AZ
Pam and Kevin, New Year's Eve in Scottsdale, AZ
Pam's husband, Kevin, at Big Bear Lake, CA
Pam and niece, Erin Bakes, at Erin's Christening
Pam with Godson, Jeffrey Damush, at Christmas
Pam with her mother at college graduation
Cancun, Mexico
Cancun, Mexico
Cancun, Mexico
Cancun, Mexico
Pam's memorial service, Princeton University Chapel. Andrea Bakes on piano.
Pam at 26-years-old, cooking dinner in their first house.
Pam on vacation at Big Bear Lake, CA.
Pam's graduation from Rider University, Master's Degree.
Portrait of Pam
Portrait of Pam
Pam at Big Bear Lake, CA
Pam and her husband, Kevin.
Pamela Lee Gaff
Pam and her husband, Kevin.
Pam and Kevin's wedding. L - R: Donald Gaff (Kevin's dad), Brad Gaff (Kevin's brother), Kevin, Pam, Greg Gaff (Kevin's brother and best man), Mary Gaff (Kevin's mother), Garth Gaff (Kevin's brother).
Pamela Lee Gaff
Pam in her first house
Pam at cousin, Don Bakes', house
Memorial quilt made by Freedom Quilts
Letter from Freedom Quilts
Copy of memorial plaque created by Aon
Sympathy card from Kevin's cousin, Sharon Gifford
Report of the president from Rider College - Pam's alma mater
Article from Trenton Times
Trenton Times article
Pamela's high school in Germany
Memorial flag from 10th anniversary. Flag purchased by Helen Longstreth, 2001.
Rider College bachelor's graduation program, 1977.
Rider College bachelor's graduation program, 1977
Rider College bachelor's graduation program, 1977.
Pam's missing person poster
Newspaper article written about Pam
Burlington Times article about Pam
Pamela as a child in school style show at LAMC
Newspaper interview with Kevin Gaff
Newspaper interview with Kevin Gaff
Newspaper article
10th anniversary newspaper article about the flag that Helen Longstreth bought for Pam.
10th anniversary newspaper article about the flag that Helen Longstreth bought for Pam.
10th anniversary newspaper article about the flag that Helen Longstreth bought for Pam.
10th anniversary newspaper article about the flag that Helen Longstreth bought for Pam.
10th anniversary newspaper article
Sacred Heart Spiritual Society cover
Documentation to reflect Pam's enrollment in the Sacred Heart Spiritual Society. November 17, 2001.
Documentation to reflect Pam's enrollment in the Sacred Heart Spiritual Society. November 17, 2001.
Addition to program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Addition to program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Addition to program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Addition to program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's Memorial Service. Booklet of historical information about Princeton University Chapel. November 17, 2001.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Pam's First Holy Communion. May 11, 1958.
Program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Program from Pam's memorial service. November 17, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Perpetual membership in the Marianist Spiritual Alliance, 2001.
Special mass card for Pam, 2001.
Special mass card for Pam, 2001.
Special mass card for Pam, 2001.
Special mass card for Pam, 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan and Cindy Martin, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan and Cindy Martin, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan and Cindy Martin, October 2001.
Sympathy card from Dan and Cindy Martin, October 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Mass card for Pam, 2001.
Empty Sky: NJ State 9/11 Memorial
Conseleya 9/11 Memorial
Dewitt 9/11 Memorial
Montclair State University 9/11 Memorial
East Newark 9/11 Memorial
Fair Haven 9/11 Memorial
Freehold Township 9/11 Living Memorial Tree Grove
Crescent Beach Park - Flagpole/Memorial for 9/11 Victims
Garrison Elementary School American Patriot Garden
Gaff, 51, was raised in Westampton and worked with insurance broker Aon Corp. on the 102nd floor of the south tower at the World Trade Center. Gaff was a 1968 graduate of Rancocas Valley Regional High School in Mount Holly and was one of the first students to enroll in Burlington County College when it opened the next year. After earning an associate degree in accounting from BCC, she transferred to Rider University, where she received bachelor’s and master’s degrees in business administration.
Gaff went on to become one of the first female accountants hired by Hess Oil Co. She also worked as an accountant with Revlon, Christian Dior and Christian Lacroix before accepting a position with Aon. Family members said she worked for Aon for 10 years and was scheduled to become a vice president with the company in April 2002.
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