Marsh Memorial Dedication

Many have noted how clear and blue the skies were on Sept. 11, but Virginia M. Jablonski and her husband Barry were among the first to notice.

A commuter to Manhattan from Matawan, Mrs. Jablonski typically rose early to start her workday at the World Trade Center.

"I don't normally get up that early, but when I heard her alarm go off at 5 a.m., I decided to throw on a pair of pants and go outside," said Barry Jablonski, a retired Lucent engineer and an astronomy buff who occasionally tracks the flight pattern of the International Space Station.

Having heard that the Space Station would be visible over New Jersey that morning, Jablonski beckoned his wife just before she left for work. Standing in the driveway, the two watched the white light of the Space Station glide across the heavens.

"We stared at it until it went over the horizon and I remember she made a comment about how clear the sky was and how it felt like it was going to be a beautiful day," said Jablonski. "We just gazed at the stars for a minute, then I gave her a hug and kiss, said have a good day, and that was it."

The pre-dawn moment was the couple's last together. Mrs. Jablonski, 49, was an assistant vice president for Marsh & McLennan. She was working on the 94th floor of Tower One when a hijacked plane rammed into the building.

Jablonski described his wife of 21 years as a very dedicated and thoughtful person who had an infectious laugh. The Brooklyn native was a faithful daughter, who spent much of her time with her 89-year-old mother, Eleanora DeTullio, whom she had moved to an assisted-living home in Holmdel.

A highly organized person, Mrs. Jablonski had already begun buying Christmas gifts for her many nieces and nephews, her husband said.

"If we were going on a trip, I would pack the night before and she'd pack a month before," he said. "If she didn't get her Christmas shopping done by Thanksgiving she thought she was late."

Jablonski, 49, also described his wife as a hobbyist who loved traveling and trying different things. She also had two special cats, Bill and Fred, and decorated her home in cat motif.

In addition to her husband and mother, Mrs. Jablonski is survived by her brother, Anthony DeTullio, and his wife, Sheryl, of Manalapan; father-in-law and mother-in-law Henry and Dorothy Jablonski of New York; brother-in-law Gregory Jablonski and wife Caroline of Southbury, Conn., sister-in-law Elaine Virga and husband Frank Virga of Wantagh, N.Y.; and a number of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

A memorial Mass will be offered at 11 a.m. Saturday in St. Clement Church in Matawan. There will be a gathering at the church banquet center immediately following the service.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Red Cross.

Profile by Patricia Huang published in THE STAR-LEDGER