Timothy John Hargrave
T. J. Hargrave Having Fun
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Golfing
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Golfing
T. J. Hargrave Enjoying Life
T. J. Hargrave Fishing
T. J. Hargrave Having Fun
T.J. Hargrave Celebratig His Dad's 70th Birthday
T.J. Hargrave at Thankgiving in Connecticut
T.J. Hargrave's Family at Christmas
"T.J. enjoying life."
T.J. enjoying a beautiful day on the beach.
A young T.J Hargrave enjoying the peace of nature.
T.J. Hargrave smiles at the camera during his wedding.
A young T.J. smiling at the camera as he relaxes on the couch.
Portrait of T.J. Hargrave taken at the beach.
T.J. having fun with the family at Christmastime.
Timothy John Hargrave
T.J. enjoying a day on the water.
T.J. enjoying the great outdoors.
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Timothy John Hargrave Enjoying Life
Young T. J. Hargrave
Young T. J. Hargrave
Young T. J. Hargrave
Young T. J. Hargrave
Young T. J. Hargrave
T.J. Playing
Saint Joseph - Butler, NJ - Grade 7
T.J. and his Mother
T.J. with members of his family.
Picture 2 of album
Picture 3 of album
Picture 4 of album
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
First Respondent Recovery Ashes
Timothy John Hargrave hat
T. J. Hargrave memorial pin
T. J. Hargrave memorial ring
T. J. Hargrave memorial ring
Kathryn S Hargrave-Kerns
Maureen V Hargrave-Kerns
Jeanmarie Hargrave
Erin F Hargrave-Kerns
Thomas Edward Kerns
9-11 Memorial Pins
"do the Thing!"
Tribute drawn by Cori in honor of her father.
Tribute drawn by Corinne, Casey, and Amy in honor of their father on the 3 year anniversary of his death.
T.J Hargrave was known to end any card or letter he'd written with "Peace."
A card made by daughter, Corinne, that she gave to her mother following the death of her father.
Drawing by T.J.'s daughter, Corinne, on the back of the previous card.
Drawing done by one of T.J. Hargrave's children - "My Dad's the best because..."
Pin that reads "Never Forget" across an American flag draped over the Twin Towers. In honor of those who were harmed and lost in the tragedy that took place on September 11th.
Another pin made to honor all those affected by the events of September 11th.
Bracelet made to commemorate the life of T.J. Hargrave.
St. Patrick's Day Card
St. Patrick's Day Card
St. Patrick's Day Card
St. Patrick's Day Card
Pictures drawn by T.J.'s children after his memorial service
Pictures drawn by T.J.'s children after his memorial service
"I like when you throw me in public pools because I like when I twist in the air."
"I like when you bring me something from when you come back from trips."
"I'll never forget the time we went to Embassy Suites, that was so fun!"
"I love when you are next to me because I love kissing you."
"I like when we play kickball in the driveway. It is so fun."
"My Dad is the best because I love him and he loves me."
Back cover of Corinne's book that she made for her Father
T. J. Hargrave Early Years
T. J. Hargrave Early Years
T. J. Hargrave Early Years
Timothy Hargrave when he was only 3 years old.
Timothy's kindergarten school portrait.
T.J. Hargrave in kindergarten/first grade.
Family photo album pictures
Picture 2 of photo album
Picture 3 of photo album
Picture 4 of photo album
Picture 5 of photo album
Picture 6 of photo album
Photos of a young T.J. Hargrave from an old family photo album
Picture 2 of album
Picture 3 of album
Picture 4 of album
Picture 5 of album
Picture 6 of album
Picture 7 of album
Picture 8 of album
Family photo album pictures
Family photo album pictures
Picture 2 of album
Picture 3 of album
Picture 4 of album
Picture 5 of album
Picture 6 of album
Pictures from an old family photo album
Picture 2 of photo album
Pictures 3 of photo album
Picture 4 of photo album
Picture 5 of photo album
Picture 6 of photo album
T.J. Hargrave (second row, second from the left) Saint Joseph - Butler, NJ - Grade 7
H2 4 716 1974
Saint Joseph - Butler, NJ - Grade 7
T.J. and his Mother
Family Photos
Family Photos
Family Photos
Family Photos
Family Photos
Family Photos
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
TV Years - Brothers
T. J. Hargrave Early Years
T. J. Hargrave At Hargrave Vineyard
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
Young T. J. Hargrave with Family
T.J. Hargrave's First Communion
TV Years - Brothers
Card to T. J. Hargrave
Tribute to T. J. Hargrave
T.J. Hargrave Memorial Dinner
Poem for T.J. Hargrave
Statement of Sister of T.J. Hargrave
T.J. is from Class of 1980
High School
Letter from T.J. to His Sister Maureen
Letter from T.J. to His Sister Maureen
Letter from T.J. to His Sister Maureen
Missing Poster
Tribute to T.J.
Eulogy by T.J.'s brother.
Eulogy by T.J.'s brother continued...
This is the original flyer made following T.J. Hargrave's untimely death to raise awareness for the trust fund created for his children.
"What Was Shattered, And What Remains" - "An Ecumenical Service of Remembrance of 9-11-01" - Memorial Program - Readington Service
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Memorial Park Dedication - West Milford, New Jersey - August 11, 2002 - 7:30 PM - Honoring Jean Caviasco DePalma, Jeremy Glick, T.J. Hargrave, Father Mychal Judge, Michael Zinzi, and all those lost on September 11, 2001
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Program
Inside of the Memorial Program
Inside of the Memorial Program
Back of the Program
Mass of Thanksgiving and Tribute - West Milford, NJ - Emergency Response Personnel
Inside of Program
A Look at the Memorial
"Remembering the West Milford Residents who died by acts of terrorism on September 11, 2001."
TV Years
Upperclassman T. J. Hargrave
Photo of T.J. Hargrave from the TV movie, "The Prince of Central Park," he was 12 years old.
T.J. was in the teleplay "The Prince of Central Park" when he was 10 years old, here's the cover of the written work with the childhood actor pictured multiple times.
Newspaper article written about the young promising actor that was T.J. Hargrave.
Picture 2 of newspaper clipping
Picture 3 of newspaper clipping
Cover of Magazine where T.J. is mentioned
T.J. Hargrave is mentioned in a Q & A section following his death
Section where T.J. Hargrave is mentioned
Portraits of the young T.J. Hargrave
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
TV Years
T. J. Hargrave with Sister Carolyn
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave Mom and Dad
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave Cooking
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T. J. Hargrave with Friend
Young T. J. Hargrave with Family
T.J. Hargrave and His Parents at a Friend's Wedding
Young T.J. with Family
Another Wall Street joke!? (T.J. and brother Tom joking together at Tom's 25th wedding anniversary)
Siblings T.J. (youngest) and sister Maureen (oldest) together - "The only thing separating us is age."
T.J. and sister Maureen together at a family party.
Sitting from L to R: Maura, Mama, Mary-Ann, Pat, & Carrie
Standing from L to R: Jamie, T.J., Maureen, Kathy, & Jean-Marie
"The family is ALWAYS eating!"
The family, siblings and parents in Mansfield.
Brothers Jamie and T.J. with their children in 1997.
Sitting from L to R: Maura, Mama, Mary-Ann, Pat, & Carrie
Standing from L to R: Jamie, T.J., Maureen, Kathy, & Jean-Marie
"The family is ALWAYS eating!"
The whole Hargrave family at Carrie and Owen's BBQ in the mid-90's.
The Hargrave's wearing matching t-shirts at their annual family reunion in Connecticut.
T.J. (on far right) with family on Labor Day in 1999.
T.J. with brothers Jamie and MIchael during the 90's in Jersey City.
T.J. and his family enjoying their vacation together.
T.J. and one of his three daughters.
T.J. with friends and family.
T. J. Hargrave with Family and Friends
T.J. and his wife Patricia at their wedding in 1988.
T. J. Hargrave with Friends
T. J. Hargrave with His Girls
T.J. Hargrave and Patty
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughters
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. and Patty - First Dance"
Top Right Photo: "T.J. and Patty"
Bottom Photo: "Family - 1994 Christmas"
Family Photos
Top Left Photo: "Family - Mother/Son Wedding Dance"
Second From Left: "High School Play"
Third From Left: "T.J."
Top Right Photo: " 8th Grade Graduation"
Bottom Left Photo: "Family - Sister"
Second From Left: "Family - Brother"
Bottom Right Photo: "family - Early Years"
T. J. Hargrave Playing with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave's Daughters
T. J. Hargrave's Daughters
T. J. Hargrave with His Girls
T. J. Hargrave with His New Born Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with Family
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughters
T. J. Hargrave's Daughters
T. J. Hargrave's Family
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughters
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughters
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave Skating with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughters
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughters
T. J. Hargrave Playing with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Daughter
T.J. Hargrave Kissing His Baby Daughter
T. J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave with His Wife and Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave with His Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughter Fishing
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughter
T.J. Hargrave and His Babe Daughter
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughter
T.J. Hargrave, Patty, and Their New Born Baby
T.J. Hargrave and His Baby Daughter
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughters
T.J. Hargrave and His Daughters
Newspaper Tribute to T.J.
T.J. with family in South Seaside Park, NJ in the late 90's.
T.J. showing his fan spirit with his girls.
T.J. enjoying the beach with one of his daughters.
T.J. with one of his girls.
T.J. taking a nap with his newborn daughter.
T.J. and his three daughters; Corinne, Casey and Amy
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. - Peace"
Top Right Photo: "Family - Uncle"
Bottom Left Photo: "The Girls"
Bottom Right Photo: "2001 - Family - The Girls"
T.J. Hargrave and Patty
T.J. Hargrave and Patty
T.J. Hargrave and His Family
T. J. Hargrave and His Wife
T.J. Hargrave and His Wife
T. J. Hargrave and His Girlfriend
T. J. Hargrave and Patty's Wedding
T.J. Hargrave and Patty
T.J. and his wife Patricia enjoying dinner together.
T.J. and his wife enjoying Halloween together.
A young couple; T.J. and his wife Patricia
The young Couple; T.J. and Patricia
Top Left Photo: "T.J. and Patty - First Dance"
Top Right Photo: "T.J. and Patty"
Bottom Photo: "Family - 1994 Christmas"
Top Left Photo: "T.J. and Patty - First Dance"
Top Right Photo: "T.J. and Patty"
Bottom Photo: "Family - 1994 Christmas"
News Report for T.J. Hargrave
Obituary from Local People
Local newspaper report
Article from School Paper That Goes w/ T.J.'s Letter to His Sister Maureen
Tribute
T.J. Newspaper Report
T.J. Newspaper Report
T.J. Newspaper Report
T.J. Newspaper Report
T.J. Newspaper Report
T.J. Remembered by Friend Report
Newspaper Report
Story about brothers wrestling alongside each other in the Bergen-Passaic area, in which the Hargraves brothers are mentioned (twelfth paragraph).
Article by childhood friend of Timothy John Hargrave, Tom O'Neill, published in the Cincinnati Enquirer.
Newspaper article detailing the extensive childhood acting career of Timothy John Hargrave.
Tribute to T.J. written by Eleanor Monahan.
Under the heading "Family" is a piece written about the life of T.J. Hargrave.
Newspaper clipping from Courier News 5 days after the events of September 11, 2001.
Article about T.J. Hargrave who died during the attacks of September 11th when he was on the 105th floor of Tower 1 at the World Trade Center.
Newspaper Clipping regarding the memorial service to be held in honor of T.J. Hargrave.
"T.J. Goodbye - 9/19/2001" By: James Hargrave
Pages from "The Prince of Central Park" which T.J. starred in as a young boy.
Tribute to T.J. written by Eleanor Monahan.
Courier News Article following the death of T.J. Hargrave
Courier News Article following the death of T.J. Hargrave
WTC's First Family Memorial Service
Memorial Flag
Tribute
Tribute
Tribute
Top Left Photo: "NYC Memorial Banner"
Top Right Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Bottom Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Top Left Photo: "NYC Memorial Banner"
Top Right Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Bottom Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Top Left Photo: "NYC Memorial Banner"
Top Right Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Bottom Photo: "West Milford Memorial"
Memorials and Memorial Services for T.J. Hargrave
Memorials and Memorial Services for T.J. Hargrave
Memorials and Memorial Services for T.J. Hargrave
Memorials and Memorial Services for T.J. Hargrave
T.J. Hargrave when he was just 6 months old.
T.J. at one year old.
Baby pictures of T.J. Hargrave
Baby pictures of T.J. Hargrave
Baby pictures of T.J. Hargrave
Baby pictures of T.J. Hargrave
West Milford Little League - West Milford NJ - Senior Tigers
West Milford Little League - West Milford NJ - Senior Tigers
Photo of the World Trade Center
Photo of the World Trade Center
New Jersey Living Memorial, A Grove of Remembrance
Empty Sky: NJ State 9/11 Memorial
Conseleya 9/11 Memorial
Dewitt 9/11 Memorial
Montclair State University 9/11 Memorial
East Newark 9/11 Memorial
Fair Haven 9/11 Memorial
Freehold Township 9/11 Living Memorial Tree Grove
Crescent Beach Park - Flagpole/Memorial for 9/11 Victims
Timothy J. Hargrave -- known to all as T. J. -- started working at age 6 and didn't stop until Sept. 11. As a child, his work was acting: he was in many television commercials, made regular appearances on "Guiding Light" and starred in a made-for-television movie called "The Prince of Central Park."
As an adult, Mr. Hargrave, 38, worked at Cantor Fitzgerald. But most of his prodigious energies went to those close to him: his wife, Patty; the friends they had made as far back as the Wayne, N.J., high school they both attended; his seven older siblings; his three young daughters; and all the girls on the soccer teams he coached.
"He was passionate about everything, and he was an everlasting friend," his wife said. "Once you were in his life, you stayed there. And he was the most devoted father you can imagine. He'd never played soccer a day in his life, but he wanted the girls to be involved in team sports, so he learned. I tell them, `Some parents have their kids in soccer so they can have some time by themselves, but your father had you in soccer because he wanted to be with you.' "
New York Times Portraits of Grief
Timothy J. Hargrave -- known to all as T. J. -- started working at age 6 and didn't stop until Sept. 11. As a child, his work was acting: he was in many television commercials, made regular appearances on "Guiding Light" and starred in a made-for-television movie called "The Prince of Central Park."
As an adult, Mr. Hargrave, 38, worked at Cantor Fitzgerald. But most of his prodigious energies went to those close to him: his wife, Patty; the friends they had made as far back as the Wayne, N.J., high school they both attended; his seven older siblings; his three young daughters; and all the girls on the soccer teams he coached.
"He was passionate about everything, and he was an everlasting friend," his wife said. "Once you were in his life, you stayed there. And he was the most devoted father you can imagine. He'd never played soccer a day in his life, but he wanted the girls to be involved in team sports, so he learned. I tell them, `Some parents have their kids in soccer so they can have some time by themselves, but your father had you in soccer because he wanted to be with you.' "
Cousin frank gave us your
Cousin frank gave us your name and we just wanted to pay our respects from our hearts
Posted by Paul and Karen Boyne
York England
T.J. was the most devoted
T.J. was the most devoted family man and one of the nicest people I've ever known.
Posted by Rose Semmel
Your Loving Family Brought Me Here
Every memorial I listen to the stories of those whose loved ones made such an impact in their own lives and others. I saw your sister giving a speech about what a joy and light you are/were to your family and friends and how they wanted to celebrate your life, not focus on the tragedy that took it. It really stung my heart hearing the words spoken about you. I stumbled across this page and got to see all the wonderful parts of the life you lived and the wisdom you shared along the way. Your wife, daughters, brothers, sisters, mom and dad and friends looked like they couldn’t get enough of your time 🤍 You obviously were dear to many people. It was comforting to see all the happy moments in your life and just how much love was evident in every photo. It’s been 21 years but this page was such a beautiful dedication to your life, loving family and contribution to the world.
I appreciate how your family honors you and keeps your memory alive. You indeed deserve to celebrated and remembered just like this. Thank you for allowing such peace in my heart from just knowing your story.
My sincerest regards.
Rose P.
My Next Door Neighbor, all thru Childhood
I love this kid & adore every Member of his Family. Miss you always & I pray, often to, with & for you and all your beautiful Family Members 🩷🩷⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🩷🩷🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Posted by Martha Rita Mackey
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